Everyone who joins before 9/25 gets their first month free.
UBeLong is a verified, human-moderated community for LGBTQ+ adults — dating, friendship, couples, events, and mutual aid. $3/month or $30/year, every member checked by a real person. Join by September 25 and your first month is on us.
Three steps. One free month.
No tricks, no hidden charges, no "gotcha" trial that bills you the second you blink. Here's exactly what happens.
Create your account
Pick a display name, choose monthly or annual, and confirm you're 18+. Takes about a minute.
Your free month applies
At checkout your founding code is applied automatically — your first month is $0. You add a card so your membership continues normally after, and you can cancel anytime.
Get verified & come in
Record a quick video so Logan can confirm you're real. Once you're approved, you're in — and your paid time doesn't start until then.
A community, not a swipe mill.
Most apps are just dating. UBeLong is a whole home — and we even plan your dates for you.
Dating that's actually safe
Every member is verified by a real human. No catfish, no bots, no scams.
We plan your dates
Custom, curated, and discounted date ideas based on who you both are — you just show up.
For singles, couples & friends
Rooms for every kind of connection — not just romance. Find your people, not just your person.
Founder Live every week
A real person behind the platform, live with the community. Try getting that from a corporate app.
Mutual aid & resources
A community that shows up for each other — because belonging is more than matching.
No greed, ever
$3/month or $30/year. No premium tiers, no pay-to-message, no selling your data.
What "first month free" really means
We'd rather over-explain than surprise you. Here's the whole deal, in plain words:
- Your first month is genuinely $0. The founding code takes 100% off your first payment.
- You add a card at checkout so your membership continues normally after the free month — at the normal $3/month or $30/year. Cancel anytime before then and you pay nothing.
- Everyone gets it — no cap, no lottery — as long as you join by September 25. After that, the code stops working — no exceptions, no "extended just for you."
- Your paid time doesn't start until you're verified. Verification can take up to 72 hours because a real human reviews every video.
- No card data ever touches UBeLong. Payments are handled securely by Stripe.
Everything you might be wondering.
Is the free month really free?
Yes. Your first payment is $0 — the founding code takes 100% off. You do add a card at checkout so your membership continues normally after the free month, but you can cancel anytime before it ends and you'll never be charged.
What happens after my free month?
Your membership continues at the normal price — $3/month or $30/year, whichever you chose — unless you cancel. No price jumps, no surprise fees. You can cancel from your account anytime.
Why do I have to add a card if it's free?
Because UBeLong is a real membership, not a one-off purchase. Adding a card now means your membership keeps working seamlessly after the free month — and it's how we keep the community full of people who are actually here, not drive-by signups. You're never charged during the free month.
Is there a limit on how many people get the free month?
No cap. Everyone who joins before September 25 gets their first month free — we want as many people as possible to try UBeLong and see if it feels like home. The only deadline is the clock: after 9/25, the code stops working.
Do I have to be out to join?
No. UBeLong has a discreet mode for members who aren't out yet — you can stay faceless publicly while being verified privately. You belong here too, and your privacy is protected.
How does verification work?
You record a short video so a real human (Logan, the founder) can confirm you match your photos. The video is never stored or shared. Once you're approved, you get a Verified badge and full access. It usually takes up to 72 hours.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes — anytime, no hoops. And if you cancel during your free month, you're never charged at all.
Your first month is on us.
Founding members aren't just early users — you're the people who make this place feel alive. Join by September 25 and your first month is free.